You are 27+, no degree
, no stable job
, nothing 🤷🏾♀
Perhaps you are having some anxiety thinking of getting a husband so you can be fine
🏾
At least he will be able to take care of you and protect. You feel that time is running out each day, you are getting older and feeling more anxious.
You are not a bad person, you wish well to those who you well and evil to those that wish you evil. You are fair and reasonable. You want to be happy. But life is hard and you just don’t see a brighter future if someone doesn’t come and save you. You don’t want to hustle like this for the rest of your life. You want nice things also
just like those people on social media.
You don’t have time to learn a skill, you need a husband. Who has time to learn about business? A husband will take care of you so what’s the use of knowing all that anyway. You left that degree halfway because you don’t mind being a full-time housewife so it would have wasted anyway.
If you can relate to this 
🏾🏾🏾🏾 in any way possible then let me remind you that you are your biggest asset.
The value you put on yourself is exactly how others will buy into you.
You have to focus on you. Building yourself. Growing. Improving. Working on yourself emotionally, mentally, intellectually, physically, spiritually and of course financially.
The foundation of your identity as a human being cannot be tied to anyone else on earth, especially a romantic partner. ( they can add to you and help you find talents/gifts and even new ways of appreciating/loving yourself but you can’t tie how you value yourself to them)
Your personal value system and self-worth has to be something that you guard closely. No matter what age, status or level you may think you are at in life, YOU ARE WORTHY OF NOTHING BUT THE ABSOLUTE BEST.
Any relationship on this planet requires two people who come together and help each other be better, grow, learn and explore together. However, if one party has nothing to bring to the table then there is going to be problems. Both in the relationship and that individual will have internal difficulties with themselves as well.
It is hard to face your insecurities and begin the process of acceptance, love and improve your perspective on how you look at things.
Time is not ruining out, you will love until 100
Focus on being your best for you. Focus on everything that makes you great, recognize what can make you better.
Your mind is your greatest asset in the entire world, invest in it tremendously and the rewards will be endless.
No matter what, remember that YOU ARE POWERFUL.
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