As much we want women to do better, we also have to put pressure on men to do better too, because at the end of the day we both need that companionship and if one party is firmer than the other in terms of belief and principles, there will be continuous chaos. It is important to hold both men and women equally accountable.
Men want to be regarded as leaders but fail to lead in many cases that they should and are so quick to point fingers and find something/one else to blame. As much as they value respect, they sometimes are quick to demand it without truly earning it the right way.
On the issue of sex, in most cases from a young age men are free to pursue and explore their sexual nature whereas women are not (but who are these men having sex with if not women?)
Most men teach through actions and other ways that sex means so much to them, women see this and fall in line with this idea.
Even subconsciously women follow the lead of men without them even giving it a second thought. All of this is what continues to shape our society, because these things are passed on the next generation and the next and so fort.
Evil spreads faster than good because most times good people remain quiet and watch. This should stop!
If more men were responsible as they should be, rape and sexual abuse would not be as common as it is today. 7 - 8/10 cases or sexual assault happen to young women or even just female in general (this ranges from babies to older women on their death beds).
Especially since it is shamed for women and praised for men (It should be the same measurement for men AND women, not good for one and bad for another.)
Men literally beg, manipulate, spend money, negotiate, for sex, and if/when denied some have resulted to sexual assault or find some way or another to hurt the women that refuse them. Why should she be "punished" for saying No?
Men know that women value words a lot and use this to their advantage a lot for good and for evil.
It is understood that men have a lot resting on their shoulders and that the pressures that they too face are quite significant, BUT it is no excuse to treat women badly.
We should appreciate the men who are doing their best everyday to be exemplary great men wherever they are and no matter what situation they find themselves.
However, those men are greatly overshadowed by the ones who do wrong and continuously enable each other to cause chaos and break down the fibers of society.
Most of us are faced with our weaknesses and have no way of dealing with them, it is only after one bad experience or a series of them that we become stronger and know better.
It is important to address issues objectively and correct both sides of the coin instead of attacking one over the other.
Men AND Women need to do better, for our society, for our children, for ours and their futures.
Lately, when women have certain standards and freely speak about them they are labelled Feminists or told that they hate men or do not understand life - why? – Because weak minds have shaped our society into thinking we should all follow what the “norm” is and not question it.
Men are praised for similar having standards, being unique and adored for being open about their principles. (in most cases, This is not a generalisation.)
For both genders they might even be mocked for being different and wanting to live life on their own terms.
We need more good examples to be praised and talked about all over the world so that more people know what is right and are influenced to act accordingly. This is all our responsibility, to hold ourselves accountable and help each other be better.
Our value system is soiled, we have to re-evaluate it and bring back the principles that really add true value to our lives and overall existence as humanity.
Each one is free to have their preference and opinions, however because we are all equal, one’s opinion is not allowed to condemn others. No one is better than the other, we are all just doing our best as we go.
Wishing you Love, light, peace and Happiness.
#CA X #FO
Originally posted on: Orchid Entry
[side note: If you do not know someone’s past, it is quite insensitive to assume that because someone isn’t a virgin they are automatically promiscuous. Especially since it is shamed for women and praised for men (It should be the same measurement for men AND women, not good for one and bad for another.]
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