Personally, I become wary of people who use phrases like "this is who I am" / "I can't change who I am" / "It's just who I am" It's sad because
1. Deep down you know that they can change.
2. Their resistance to change is rooted in "what will people think of me?".
It's so sad that we tie our identities to certain ideas or actions when life is constantly changing.
New and different information keep surfacing every day, adding and removing from what we know.
It is so incredibly dangerous for us to hold onto ideas of who we are in one single moment and plaster that over all other experiences to come.
Know who you are at your core and let everything else flow..
Be like water, my friend - Bruce Lee.
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