Rough diamonds


You are 27+ , qualified but no job🎓, no stable job💼, nothing

Perhaps you are having some anxiety thinking if you will ever be fine👍🏾

You feel that time is running out 😰 each day, you are getting older and feeling more anxious.

You are not a bad person, you wish well to those who you well and evil to those that wish you evil. You are fair and reasonable. You want to be happy. But life is hard and you just don’t see a brighter future if someone doesn’t come and save you. You don’t want to hustle like this for the rest of your life. You want nice things also👗👜👠 just like those people on social media. 

You don’t have time to learn a skill, you need a fast solution today, right now. Who has time to learn about business? You need miracle money in your account so that all your problems can be solved in an instant. You don't have time to work on discipline or be consistent, you already know who you are. I want someone or something to come and make all this pain go away.

If you can relate to this 👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾 in anyway possible then let me remind you that you are your biggest asset.

The value you put on yourself is exactly how others will buy into you. 

You have to focus on you. Building yourself. Growing. Improving. Working on yourself emotionally, mentally, intellectually, physically, spiritually and of course financially. 

The foundation of your identify as a human being cannot be tied to anyone else on earth, especially not a romantic partner. (they can add to you and help you find talents/gifts and even new ways of appreciating/loving yourself but you can’t tie how you value yourself to them) 

Your personal value system and self worth has to be something that you guard closely.

Any relationship on this planet, requires two people who come together and help each other be better, grow, learn and explore the world together. However, if one party has nothing to bring to the table, then there will be problems. Both in the relationship and that individual will have internal difficulties with themselves as well.

It is hard to face your insecurities and begin the process of acceptance, love and self improvement, but it must be done.

Time is not ruining out, you will live until 100. Be patient with yourself and be honest every step of the way.

We are like diamonds, and over time our shine will come out, but not before going through some intense processes of life that scrub away the dirt and coal.


Focus on being your best for you. Focus on everything that makes you great, recognize what can make you better. 

Your mind is your greatest asset in the entire world, invest in it tremendously and the rewards will be endless. 

No matter what, remember that YOU ARE POWERFUL. 






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