Rough diamonds
You are 27+ , qualified but no job , no stable job , nothing Perhaps you are having some anxiety thinking if you will ever be fine 🏾 You feel that time is running out each day, you are getting older and feeling more anxious. You are not a bad person, you wish …
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Set the Standard
You have to set the standard on how people treat you in all areas of your life. It is up you to decide what you want and how you will get it. A lot of times people go into relationships without making their standards clear. Make sure you are not bending over backward and …
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Crumbs For The King
It's hard to explain your vision to people who don't have your eyes. The battle becomes tougher when you expect support but all you get is questions and doubts thrown in your face. Your mental health becomes unstable because through all that fighting you slowly begi…
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Patterns of Character
The most practical advise that can ever be given to any one in a relationship is that you have to know your partner . (Especially if they are a reasonable person who is not abusive in any way or manipulative. – when you have a good one.) It doesn’t matter how much advice yo…
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Well wishes
I wish you well from the bottom of my heart because I know I know what’s like to wake up with hurt and pain I know what’s like to look around you not find love I know what it’s like to be suffering in silence and not able to scream for help Or you do scream and no one listen…
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To A Girl Like Me #1
To A Girl like me: You woke up today not feeling like it was a good day to do 'life' but you have to. You have to get up and clean your body and go out of this space where you feel most comfortable and show up to work. Smile and pack and sweep the floors. When anyone …
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Gravel to Glory
It’s weird how you have to keep trying. Keep going, don’t let fear hold you down or hold you back. It’s tough but you have to keep going for that life that you want so bad. You have to keep trying to get there. At any point in your life, if you settled for less than yo…
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Day 1: Pursuing The Dream
Day 1. Cape Town finally. I like the vibe of the city. The busy roads, quiet streets and closeness of the stores and services. Everyone seems to be about their own business, driving from one destination to the other, constant wind blowing cool breeze in the face of t…
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Turn around
This is to a specific 'friend' who went behind my back and told people horrible things about me to make herself feel better about the problems she has in her life. I wish you well always. I wish you happiness and joy. I wish you success in all you do. I have nothi…
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Blue Flame
(Play: Stromae - Formidable (ceci n'est pas une leçon) He put his hand on mine and instantly i t reminded me of all the hands that touched me uninvited, unwanted and yet again this. Moments of intimacy stolen from my lips, stolen from my body. Cold desires that scarred…
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From one vacuum to another...
People who go around telling lies about you to make themselves look/feel better have low self esteem. This is a fact. These people will do anything to make you look bad just so they can feel like they have the upper hand or are better than you, they will talk behind your b…
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Battling my faith for my faith - Growth
Just because we call ourselves born again doesn't mean we are holy or have achieved some level of "Holiness" or "Spirituality" It means we are aware of what is wrong, the things that we do wrong and we repent. We wake up the next day, knowing our sins …
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At the Junction of Passion
I am tired of bare minimum. From my government, from the education sector from people and most of all from MYSELF! I had a conversation with some friends the last night and I was (still am) genuinely concerned as to why we are all not striving to be better and do better th…
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Nothing defines you
Even within a heartbreak I found that I can still pull myself together. But why is my heart broken? I was the one who was responsible for everything that crumbled the foundation on which I stood. My actions brought me to my pain. I saw the signs, I chose to ignore. I …
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#2 Untitled
Today I noticed a middle aged woman smile whilst sitting in her car, At a young couple walking and the young lady was animatedly telling a story to the man who watched her so intently... I'm sure a few memories flashed in her mind as she watched others make ne…
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Catching up with Sean Dampte
Name and surname: Seun Oluyole Age: early thirties · When you were a child, what did you want to be when you grew up? I always thought I would be a pilot and wanted to be one and I will be one · What are you most Passionate about? Music in all aspects …
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Alex - By Anonymous
He was my closet friend ,childhood buddy ,been with me through thick and thin and I know him better than most people .even when most people called him a playboy ,I knew Alex was the best lover I had seen. Alex said he can’t give commitments and I said it was okay with …
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Martial arts fitness with Ogoshi Sadiq
Name and surname: Ogoshi Sadiq Occupation: Athlete/Fitness Instructor Qualifications: Bsc. Psychology How did you get into sports? I can’t really say, but I guess is my passion for it Which sports do you train for? Slalom Kayak, swimming, sailing and ma…
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