I haven't done enough
So, a few weeks ago, I was feeling off. I had incredible pain in the middle of the night one week and I decided to go to the doctor. (I’m lying, my mom forced me) so I went and I described everything that I was feeling and one of the things she mentioned was maybe its cancer, …
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You are probably insane.
Most people hate rocky situations. They hate when things get tense and complicated. They don’t like to feel uncomfortable or inconvenienced. For so many years, we ignore. We push aside. We move over. We shift ourselves away from difficult situations not even to protect o…
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Show support: share and like
You have to be mindful of how you treat others, on all platforms, you have to maintain consistency. Real life or on social media. For the most part, people might be able to hide their true personalities on social media because that is one of the features of having virtual…
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Rough diamonds
You are 27+ , qualified but no job , no stable job , nothing Perhaps you are having some anxiety thinking if you will ever be fine 🏾 You feel that time is running out each day, you are getting older and feeling more anxious. You are not a bad person, you wish …
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The worth of Sex…
As time goes by it becomes more apparent to me why the bible instructs us to wait until after marriage to have sex. We have become so used to exploring our sexual attractions instead of exploring our intellectual and spiritual compatibility first. Watch this: Physical attr…
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Allow yourself to fail
We underestimate making mistakes and failing so much. We forget that in order to be experienced we have to go through experiences. Most of the time we try to live our lives with as little mistakes and risks as possible, always trying to make the safest choices. There is no …
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Set the Standard
You have to set the standard on how people treat you in all areas of your life. It is up you to decide what you want and how you will get it. A lot of times people go into relationships without making their standards clear. Make sure you are not bending over backward and …
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Crumbs For The King
It's hard to explain your vision to people who don't have your eyes. The battle becomes tougher when you expect support but all you get is questions and doubts thrown in your face. Your mental health becomes unstable because through all that fighting you slowly begi…
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Get over it
The most challenging hurdle in life is getting over the excuses you make for yourself as to why you can't achieve what you need to. You literally have to get over yourself. You have to get over all the bs excuses that you have built and molded into this huge 'I jus…
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Week 2 of Film School
This week was much easier than the first. I know where school is. I walk there without any anxiety. I enjoy the long classes (lol) and everything that's being said feels like a fresh breeze on my face. They use such complex terms and sometimes I sit there lost…
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So I stayed..
I have always struggled with the feeling of being Wanted ... It didn't really do they want me around but more of why would anyone want me around? You grow up and little by little words stick on you and you begin to internalize them so much “Too stubborn.” “Mischiev…
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Well wishes
I wish you well from the bottom of my heart because I know I know what’s like to wake up with hurt and pain I know what’s like to look around you not find love I know what it’s like to be suffering in silence and not able to scream for help Or you do scream and no one listen…
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To A Girl Like Me #1
To A Girl like me: You woke up today not feeling like it was a good day to do 'life' but you have to. You have to get up and clean your body and go out of this space where you feel most comfortable and show up to work. Smile and pack and sweep the floors. When anyone …
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Gravel to Glory
It’s weird how you have to keep trying. Keep going, don’t let fear hold you down or hold you back. It’s tough but you have to keep going for that life that you want so bad. You have to keep trying to get there. At any point in your life, if you settled for less than yo…
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Day 1: Pursuing The Dream
Day 1. Cape Town finally. I like the vibe of the city. The busy roads, quiet streets and closeness of the stores and services. Everyone seems to be about their own business, driving from one destination to the other, constant wind blowing cool breeze in the face of t…
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Are men intimidated by successful women?
Why are people intimidated by successful people? Because first of all, looking at them you know that this is someone who works hard and smart in ways that you probably have no idea about, or things you think are not real yet, because you are too scared to try. …
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